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IN THE COURT OF APPEAL (CIVIL DIVISION)
ON APPEAL FROM SOUTHAMPTON COUNTY COURT
(His Honour Judge Milligan)
The Strand London WC2 |
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B e f o r e :
(Dame Elizabeth Butler-Sloss)
LORD JUSTICE THORPE
LORD JUSTICE ROBERT WALKER
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G | Appellant/Petitioner | |
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G | Respondent |
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Smith Bernal Reporting Limited, 180 Fleet Street,
London EC4A 2HG
Tel: 0171 421 4040
Official Shorthand Writers to the Court)
MISS A GRUNDY (Instructed by Messrs Paris Smith & Randall, Southampton SO15 2AE) appeared on behalf of the Respondent
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"(3)An order under this section may-
(a) enforce the applicant's entitlement to remain in occupation as against the other person ("the respondent");
"'Living together and going through divorce is making it all more difficult. The boys are loyal to and love their dad. I don't want any of this [litigation], nobody wants it. I accept that father going could upset the boys. The cross-undertakings to keep the peace are only appropriate depending on how long it all takes. I don't want the boys' father to be asked to go. He will only tell them it was me who did it.' ... 'The boys wake up every morning wondering how long it will go on. We can't go out together. Getting father out of the house won't give them peace of mind, but they need to know that it will all be over soon."
"He only intervenes to see that they are brought up to be respectful of their mother and respectful generally. He accepts that [O] is quiet. He thinks that is to do with the divorce and his age. He accepts that there is tension in the house, but says that there is not a hostile atmosphere on his side."
"So I reach the view without difficulty that significant harm is likely to accrue to these boys and to the mother if the present situation is allowed to continue. But I have also to ask the question whether that is attributable to the conduct of the father respondent. I have found as facts that the mother's allegations are true. But it is clear that there are other factors. Mr [G] must be right when he refers to the inevitable results of the breakdown of the adult relationship, and the fact that [O] at least at 12 and [I] to a lesser extent at 14 are both at what might be called a difficult age. I think to a great extent the conduct of the father is to that extent unintentional. I do not believe with one or two exceptions that this is a father who sets out to be unpleasant. Certainly there is no evidence that he sets out to be unpleasant to his boys, and the mother roundly accepts that. But I have to say that my feeling is that much of the present strain and worry is the result of the meeting of two apparently incompatible personalities, and that the great differences between them are aggravated by this awful no-man's land in which they have now been living for a year."
"So I come with some reluctance to the conclusion that although significant harm in my judgment has accrued to these boys and their mother and is only likely to get worse, I am unable to find that it is attributable to the requisite degree to the conduct of the father. Had I been required to consider the balance of harm test, I would certainly have recognised that the father being asked to go would be a matter that the boys would greet with some unhappiness. The tragedy of this case is that these boys seem in all the circumstances to have retained a respect for and a love for each parent, notwithstanding the great tension and atmosphere that plainly goes on in this house. [I] has said that he does not want his father to go. In my judgment it means that he does not want either of them to go.
Plainly there would be some harm resulting from the order which the mother asks me to make, but had that been the determining factor, I would have found that the harm which has accrued and will accrue to the mother and the boys would have been significantly greater. However, in all the circumstances of this thoroughly difficult case, bearing mind the length of the marriage and that much of the difficulties are to do with character and temperament and other factors unavoidable on an adult relationship breakdown, I am not persuaded that it would be appropriate under section 33 to make an occupation order today. I bear also in mind that it has proved possible to find a date in late February for the resolution of the cross-residence applications and the ancillary relief questions that necessarily go with them."
"It's completely different when he is away."
"regulate the occupation of the dwelling-house by either or both parties."
ORDER: Appeal dismissed. Order against the Legal Aid Board under section 18 of the Legal Aid Act 1988, suspended for 10 weeks to allow the Board to make representations.
(Order not part of approved judgment)