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IN THE COURT OF APPEAL (CIVIL DIVISION)
ON APPEAL FROM SOUTHEND COUNTY COURT
(HIS HONOUR JUDGE YELTON)
Strand London, WC2 |
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B e f o r e :
LORD JUSTICE THORPE
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IN THE MATTER OF F (A CHILD) |
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THE RESPONDENT APPEARED IN PERSON.
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"It could be said that it would be best to go along with [J's] expressed wish, as he will continue to display disruptive behaviour should he remain with his mother. It could also be said, however, that to concede to [J's] wishes would give him the message that he can achieve what he wants by behaving in a negative manner."
"It is my opinion and there is ample evidence to indicate that he is severely adversely affected by the dispute between his parents. During the interview, he was clear that he was involved in the parental battle and that he did not like that and that there is pressure for him to take sides with each parent. In my opinion, J is a boy who is extremely vulnerable and at high risk of future emotional behavioural and personality problems. Those problems do not seem to affect D to quite the same extent, but it would be a matter of astonishment if those kind of feelings were not present within him."
"I advise that until the parents are able to stop trying to prove that they are right and the other parent is wrong, they will also continue to knowingly cause damage to the children."
He makes the point that the only real resolution in this case is for the parents to withdraw from the field of combat and to allow the children space in which to develop their relationships with both parents.
"… the range of powers available to the court under this Act in the proceedings in question. The only question I am really considering -- it crossed my mind whether there should be a joint residence order but that has not been argued or put before the court at this stage. All I am being asked is whether or not the residence of [J] should be changed."
"I have come to the conclusion in this difficult case, having seen and heard the parties, that it would not be in [J's] interest to vary the existing residence order. I have come to that conclusion because, firstly, I consider there is nothing untoward in the mother's care. Secondly, it would be wrong to separate him from his brother. Thirdly, I think it would enable him to exploit the situation, if that were the case."
With great respect to the learned judge, that seems to be a model exercise of discretion in the context of this case. He has set out concisely and lucidly precisely what it is that has caused him to come to the conclusion that he has, and it has to be recorded in fairness to everybody that Mr F now recognises that that was not only a conclusion the judge could come to, but actually is the right answer at the present time in this case.
Order: Permission to appeal allowed. Appeal dismissed.