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COURT OF APPEAL (CIVIL DIVISION)
ON APPEAL FROM BROMLEY COUNTY COURT
(HER HONOUR JUDGE HALLON)
Strand, London, WC2A 2LL |
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B e f o r e :
LORD JUSTICE RIX
and
LORD JUSTICE LONGMORE
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IN THE MATTER OF B (Children) |
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Miss R Amiraftabi (instructed by Messrs Buss Murton) appeared on behalf of the Respondent Father.
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Lord Justice Thorpe:
"Mother's decision to move to Germany was made in August, after visiting for a holiday. She has not, however, established the practicality of this move at present. She has somewhere to live, a child minding service in place. She has not established whether or when schooling will be available to the children, she hasn't even visited or contacted any local school.
Similarly she has not investigated the prospect of employment for her as a GP in Germany."
"…that mother is low, lonely, depressed and anxious. She has been in this state since her first appearances in court this summer, but has continued to provide good enough parenting to the children. Dr Derry said that if she was forced to stay in England, her stress and depression would increase, as would her emotional difficulties."
Within the other scale the judge was to find:
"I have no doubt that if it were left to Dr Zehnter, Dr Bhaskaran will be excised from their lives, to their great detriment, given mother's anxious attachment and the need for an agent to assist in their separation from her and to achieve autonomy."
Accordingly, on the alternative weighing of welfare interests the judge concluded that the application also failed.
"In your opinion, Mrs Beazley-Richards, what is the impact on the children if this situation is allowed to continue, where they are at risk of emotional harm, where they are not able to speak out freely about the other parent -- what impact is this going to have on them, on their development?"
To that, of course, not surprisingly, the expert said that it would have a very negative effect on their emotional development. So from that the questioning developed:
"Well, what if mother is allowed to remove the children?"
"That's why it's so difficult, isn't it, because if she doesn't go to Germany and she stays here, she's going to feel more resentful, more victimised and they will be exposed to that, she will blame him, and so that will be negative for them, and if she does go, I think that there is a likelihood that they will lose the relationship with their father. So, I think it's such an impossible situation for the court."
"The experience I have had in this hearing of the mother has been considerably more extreme. Her evidence was very lengthy, much of it not dealing with what had been raised or was being investigated by the questions asked. She was insistent on giving the evidence that she wanted to give. Attempts to curtail her failed entirely and her persistence in going in detail into matters she wanted to air led her to spend much of her time giving evidence in tears. When she was recalled to continue cross-examination after Mrs Beazley-Richards had given her evidence, so on the afternoon of the second day, she was unable to proceed at all and the court had to rise somewhat early. She had to leave court during submissions being made by father's counsel and the only time that I observed her to be calm, and indeed had a smile on her face, was when the father was being cross-examined. She demonstrated that she is not exercising any control over her emotions, that she is single-minded in her determination to portray herself as a victim and she is contemptuous of anyone who disagrees. I noted that when being asked about the concerns which Her Honour Judge Hamilton had expressed in her judgment, the mother said, according to my note, 'I think my application in December 2006 failed because there was concern I would stand in the way of contact and there were a couple of other excuses.' I accept that she has been diagnosed as suffering from reactive depression but her presentation cannot be explained entirely by that. Unhappily, those caught up in the difficult and acrimonious family disputes which come before the courts do on occasions suffer from psychological difficulties, including depression. Much of the mother's presentation seemed more to be linked to her personality and her determination to achieve her ends. That is something which I found profoundly worrying."
By contrast she said of the father:
"Turning then to the father, although he was clearly under pressure when giving evidence, he was careful, thoughtful and to an extent insightful. He is still highly critical of the mother and frustrated by the intransigence of the problems and the effect on the children's welfare resulting from the adult dispute, but it was clear from his evidence that he has been patient, he has complied with the mother's wishes and demands and has endeavoured to ensure that the children are able to enjoy their time with him."
"That undoubtedly is correct, but what it does not deal with is the fundamental difficulty, which I think must be apparent from the evidence which I have already alluded to, that these children will become alienated from their father and that is the mother's overwhelming desire."
"The remedy to a large extent lies in the mother's hands; her willingness and ability to take the assistance which can be provided. However, it is not solely in the mother's hands; it also requires the father to continue further with those aspects, on which I regarded him as insightful, to be able further to understand the mother's difficulties and to work with whoever actually undertakes, if they do undertake, the counselling which I urge the parties strongly to take, so that he too is better able to work with the mother in the best interests of these children's welfare."
Lord Justice Rix:
Lord Justice Longmore:
Order: Application granted; appeal dismissed