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You are here: BAILII >> Databases >> England and Wales Family Court Decisions (other Judges) >> Redcar and Cleveland Borough Council v Mother & Ors [2024] EWFC 408 (B) (31 October 2024) URL: http://www.bailii.org/ew/cases/EWFC/OJ/2024/408.html Cite as: [2024] EWFC 408 (B) |
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REDCAR AND CLEVELAND BOROUGH COUNCIL |
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(1) MOTHER (2) FATHER (3) THE CHILDREN (by their Children's Guardian) |
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MISS P ABLADEY appeared on behalf of the First Respondent
MR J WORRALL appeared on behalf of the Second Respondent
MRS L HARLAND appeared on behalf of the Third Respondent Children (by their Children's Guardian, Lynn Howard)
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JUDGE BROWN:
1. "The significant harm or likelihood of significant harm is physical, emotional, and/or neglect, and it arose from the following facts:
2. On or around 6 May 2023 [Tommy] suffered an injury of several red marks on either side of his spine:
a. This was an inflicted injury caused by The mother forcefully hitting [Tommy] several times on his back with her hand, having lost her temper with him.
b. On the evening of 6 May The father was aware of The mother causing this injury to [Tommy].
3. On or around 15 August 2023 [Annie] suffered an injury of bruising to her back covering the entire width of one side of her back:
a. This was an inflicted injury caused by forcefully hitting [Annie] several times on the back.
b. The injury was caused by the mother losing her temper with [Annie].
4. On or about 11 October 2023 [Tommy] suffered an injury, a superficial abrasion to the skin on the lower left side of his back, just above the left buttock, measuring six centimetres by 2.5 centimetres:
a. This was an inflicted injury caused by [Tommy] being pushed over by the father who pushed his way into the room in an aggressive way.
b. The mother was aware of the father causing this injury to [Tommy].
5. On or before 20 November 2023 [Tommy] suffered an injury of a significant cluster of bruises behind his left ear, including
i. two approximately one-centimetre purple linear bruises parallel to each other at the top and behind his left ear,
ii. circular purple cruises with discrete edges, one centimetre by 0.5 centimetres, located behind the two linear bruises,
iii. approximately one-centimetre horizontal linear red scratch behind the top of the left ear on his scalp.
a. this was an inflicted injury consistent with being hit with a book.
b. this injury was caused by the father.
c. The mother was aware of the father causing the injury to [Tommy].
6. Prior to the finding of fact hearing the mother and the father had not given a truthful account of how the children had suffered these injuries and have colluded to lie repeatedly throughout the proceedings including to the social worker, police in interview, and the court within their statements, The mother even falsely accusing [Tommy] of causing the injury to [Annie].
7. The above incidents are not the only times that [Tommy] and [Annie] were assaulted by the mother and the father. This happened on numerous occasions. They were hit on their back, leg, bottom and hands. These were not gentle taps as stated by the parents, and the children were routinely subject to aggressive and violent behaviour from The father and Mother.
8. The mother and the father have referred to [Tommy] in harsh, derogatory and harmful terms, including and I quote, "cunt", "scruffy cunt", The mother only using that terminology and "little shit", and would shout at the children to excess.
9. The mother was aware that the father had assaulted the children, and the father was aware that the mother had assaulted the children. Both parents failed to protect the children from this harm and did not report this to the police of Children's Services.
10. The mother has caused significant emotional harm to [Tommy] by:
a. repeatedly telling him that he tells lies,
b. informing him that social services attend when he tells lies,
c. encouraging him to lie to medical professionals,
d. encouraging him to lie to social services and police,
e. encouraging him to make false allegations against other family members.
11. Prior to 11 October 2023 [Annie] and [Tommy] slept in a bedroom which did not have an internal door handle. A rope was used to keep the door shut. The children were unable to open the bedroom door from inside."
a. The extent to which the parents have given full and honest accounts of the physical and emotional harm suffered by the children. Father lied about losing his mobile phone when consideration was given to it being examined in the context of the examination into the mistreatment of the children. In the parenting assessment, the father indicated he would refuse to give access to his mobile phone for examination, even at this stage having had time to reflect upon that decision. This raises continued concerns about his openness.
b. When the parents were asked about any messages that may cause concern should Redcar and Cleveland Borough Council examining the telephones consider those messages, the father referred to a message in which the mother refers to "murdering this child" referring to [Tommy], and where the father responds by saying "I'll deal with him when I get home." The parents indicated that such messages should not be interpreted literally. The mother, when asked about messages on her phone that Redcar and Cleveland Borough Council would be concerned about, the mother referred to messages where she referred to [Tommy] as "a cunt" on numerous occasions. The mother said she was ashamed. The father when asked about the derogatory names replied "I hear parents say this all the time at work. Why have I got my kids took off me when I hear this every day". Redcar and Cleveland Borough Council concluded that the parents failed to recognise the impact on [Tommy]'s emotional wellbeing caused by using hateful language of this type. This remained the position despite engagement in the Solihull Parenting Program. It concerned Redcar and Cleveland Borough Council about the extent of such inappropriate behaviour towards the children in the light of the parents' attitude and concern, and also about the extent to which the parents had been open and honest about these things.
c. A further message was put to the parents relating to an occasion when [Tommy] was locked in his room. The message referred to what passed between the parents, and it was as follows: "Let him out. He needs his dinner. He keeps knocking on his door." The message was sent by the mother to the father. When the parents were asked about the upsetting message and whether it was upsetting to read, the father responded, "Yes, it is also upsetting that we asked for help and never got it. If someone pulled their finger out of their arse at the beginning". Redcar and Cleveland Borough Council suggested that this message encapsulates the father's lack of insight into the effect of their conduct on the child.
d. Differing accounts were given by the parents about the circumstances in which [Tommy] was locked in his room. Reference was made to the previously quoted text message. The mother accepted [Tommy] had been put in his room because he was naughty but was unclear about whether the yellow rope was used to secure the door. The mother accepted that she should not have secured his door, and the parents should have just spoken to him. The father's response was to contradict this account, and he replied "I know he was locked in his room. There were times when [Tommy] would destroy the house and kick off. I know this was the time where we asked for help from the school, GP, and early help but got nowhere". The parents appeared to minimise this issue. The mother stating for example "It would not be every day but could be three days in a row or something". That is referring to the number of times that [Tommy] was locked in his room. The father said, and I quote again "It's not like he doesn't have anything in there. We would ask for help so many times. I have the paper trail." Redcar and Cleveland Borough Council indicated that between 2021 and 2023 the parents received some limited practical parenting support at early help from the health visitor for [Tommy]'s behaviour. Offers to attend the New Parents Group on two occasions were declined. The early help worker indicated that during this period home visits were often cancelled by the parents. Parenting support was offered to the mother in October 2023 to which the mother responded, "If you can't get me moved it's pointless". All in all the parents' approach to [Tommy] being locked in his room for prolonged periods and their responses when asked about this were regarded by Redcar and Cleveland Borough Council as highly concerning. The impact that this would have upon a young child, making him as the assessment says "feel lonely, frightened, and rejected" this was highlighted with the parents and the assessment noted that [Tommy] continued to experience regular nightmares in foster care. Further [Tommy] has been able to tell professionals, and I quote: "I was locked in my room, but I could get out with my hands under the bottom of the door, but then that thing would spring back at me when I tried to open the door". When asked what he was referring to, he said "The thing that mum and dad put on the door, so it stayed shut".
e. The parents were unclear about whose idea it was to lock [Tommy] in his room. When the mother was asked to be honest about the situation she said "It was my idea. I've been in and out of foster care myself and I knew it was wrong". When asked why it was done, the reply from the mother was "Just to stop him coming out and trashing my house." Redcar and Cleveland Borough Council concern was that to purchase a rope and to act in this way was a planned action.
f. The handprint on [Tommy]'s back. The mother accepted that she initially blamed her brother [Andrew] as well as telling [Tommy] to blame her brother as well. The mother accepted that she lied to the police in her interview as well as to the court and to social care. The mother's initial explanation that she smacked [Tommy]'s back in retaliation for him hitting [Annie] now also appears to be untrue since in her statement she accepted she had hit [Tommy] since she could not manage his behaviour. It would seem the truth only came out by mistake. The mother sent a photograph of a slap mark to a friend of her brother by accident who then disclosed this information to the authorities.
g. The mother accepts that she showed the social worker a photograph of an injury to [Annie]'s back in January 2024. She now accepts that when she said [Tommy] had caused this injury it was a lie, but in fact she had hit [Annie] in response to [Annie] "… accidentally headbutting her". These episodes of physical harm to the children cause significant concern and the fact that the mother has attempted to cover them up by blaming others raises real concerns about the protection of the children and the viability of any plan to safeguard the children from physical harm in the future.
h. The significant injury sustained by [Tommy] caused by the father, and the circumstances in which they were caused were also surrounded by a high level of untruth and deceit. In the course of the parenting assessment the mother said, and I quote "The father told me to take the blame. He said he had proof that he was at work so they would come after me anyways." The mother then went on, "He told me if I didn't take the blame he would leave me." When asked about the concern that she would put her relationship with the father over and above the safety of the children and being honest with the court, the mother responded, "I didn't like being on my own." The parents maintained this untruth for 10 months up until the fact-finding hearing.
i. Concerns persist about the nature of the parental relationship and the extent to which the parents are being honest about the extent to which it is a stable relationship. The parents indicated on 27 August 2024 that they were on a break which appeared to contradict the comment by the father that he made on 27 August that he had been on the phone to the registry office since the parents planned to marry in 2025. The mother did not accept that the fact that the father had tried to encourage her to take the blame for causing the injury to [Tommy]'s ear indicated that the father was controlling. When asked what the couple argued about, the mother said "Usually what he …" the father, "… did to [Tommy]. I wouldn't call him out in person" and she talked of sending him text messages about this. The mother was challenged about her failure to call out the father for his conduct towards [Tommy], but in the course of the parenting assessment she was not able to provide any real answer to this point. When asked why the mother had participated in the Freedom Program and whether she would complete this program again, the mother replied "I don't know why I was asked to do it. I just said I'll do anything I needed to get the kids back home". Despite completing the Freedom Program significant concern was expressed about the mother's ability to identify that it was not a healthy feature of a relationship to be asked by one's partner to take the blame for something that she had not done.
j. In the parenting assessment the father was asked about his conduct towards [Tommy]. The father's explanation surrounding the purchase of the rope and the decision to utilise it to lock [Tommy] in his room remained unclear. He said as follows, "I would tell mother it wasn't a good idea, but just do it. I would just do as she says". He then accepted that he had bought the rope. He said he did not wish to put the rope on [Tommy]'s door, but then went on, "I had to buy it and was forced into it". It was pointed out to the father that none of this had previously been disclosed to his solicitor or to Children's Services. The father stated that the rope was never put on [Tommy]'s door whilst he was in the home. It would usually be whilst he was at work. He said he would ask the mother how long [Tommy] had been in the room, and he said this could be "From one minute to an hour". The father claimed he had told the mother this was wrong, and the father was challenged about the fact that [Tommy] appeared fearful of him in contact. He said this, "I think I might have scared him, and I shouted at him and raised my voice". Father then continued, "I admit, I have locked him in his room, but it was mother telling me to". This was a direct contradiction to what the father had said earlier in the same session and appeared to contradict the mother's account as well.
k. The occasion when the father threw a book at [Tommy] and caused an injury was discussed. The father accepted that [Tommy] was at another home when the incident with the book took place. He had been informed by the mother about [Tommy]'s behaviour and had travelled to the property. When challenged about his actions and the fact that he had travelled from his home to the other property and then behaved as alleged and why this made it difficult to suggest his actions were caused by a temporary loss of temper, the father when asked said, "I didn't think it through properly, it's like I'm always the one to deal with his behaviour. I was so stressed". The father sought to explain his behaviour by blaming stress at work, his sister's recent cancer diagnosis. When asked why he had hidden this for the duration of the care proceedings, the father stated, "I thought if I said I had my rotas to prove where I was then I would get away with it". The father indicated that in future he would install cameras in the living room, kitchen and on the stairs, so that, and again I quote, "I want proof. If something happens again I have footage".
l. The father was asked about physical harm perpetrated by the mother to the children. Like the mother, the father sought to blame the mother's brother [Andrew] for the injuries to [Tommy] and sought to blame [Tommy] for the injury to [Annie], with the truth only emerging at the fact-finding hearing. The father indicated in a solo assessment session that he did not believe that the mother could manage caring for the children should they return home. When asked why he thought this, the father indicated that in his opinion, the mother struggled to manage the children in family time with the oversight of the worker, let alone within the family home.
m. The father identified certain issues in the parental relationship. He indicated money was a big stressor. When he and the mother did not speak for a full day this would be because he had told the mother that they could not afford a certain thing, and this would result in her not speaking. It is recorded the father accepted that his relationship with the mother was unstable and toxic. The father said, and I quote, "My dad always said if you give a woman an inch she will drive a bus through it". When asked about why he sought the mother to take responsibility for causing the injury to [Tommy]'s ear, the father said this, "I just told her I had proof where I was. She said there would be more chance of the children coming home if she took the blame. I know she was scared of losing me. I told her to choose the kids. I told her we can work on things down the line, and I would come back home. I knew in court it wasn't going my way, and I thought enough was enough".
n. In the final analysis, Redcar and Cleveland Borough Council expressed significant concerns about the significant injuries sustained by the children and the dishonest and differing narratives provided about the circumstances in which in the injuries were caused. Redcar and Cleveland Borough Council concluded that there continued to be clear evidence of the minimisation of the importance of what had happened. There had been a failure, even now, to provide a full account of the problems within the home, and overall the parents lacked any real insight into how their conduct had impacted upon the children. Although the parents engaged in the Solihull Parenting course, and attended the Points on Parenting course in September also this was at, insofar as the Solihull course was concerned, this was at a time when the parents continued to be untruthful about the circumstances in which injuries were caused and the problems within the home. Although the parents had shown commitment to contact and to the assessment process, the view of Redcar and Cleveland Borough Council is that their commitment to assessment and further work is only "surface compliance". Overall, the view of Redcar and Cleveland Borough Council was that the parents had not shown true remorse for their actions, nor did they understand or acknowledge the impact of their actions on the children and seek to qualify any acceptance by blaming the behaviour on [Tommy], on the circumstances they faced at the time as well. In the circumstances then the parenting assessment was negative.
a. The significant factual findings have already been made in this case, but in relation to any additional findings of fact sought by Redcar and Cleveland Borough Council in the course of the hearing I remind myself that the burden of proof is on Redcar and Cleveland Borough Council. The standard of proof is the simple balance of probability. In other words, a fact is either proved or it is not. If it is not proved, the court behaves as if that incident or occurrence alleged had never taken place. There is no room for speculation.
b. I remind myself in relation to the issue of lies told by witnesses that I should take account of the relevant revised direction referred to in legal terms as a Lucas direction. Thus I should only take into account a lie told by a witness if I am satisfied that there is no innocent reason for the witness to have lied in his or her evidence, and that such a lie is not germane to a serious issue which needs to be determined in the case. The mere fact a lie has been told does not prove the primary case against a party or witness who has been found to have lied, but the court is entitled to take this into account when determining the relevant factual matter. The court must always bear in mind that people can lie for many reasons. That can include nervousness, fear, or to bolster an otherwise honest case.
c. Findings of fact must be based on the evidence, including inferences that can be drawn from the evidence and not mere suspicion, surmise, or speculation. There is no obligation on the party to prove the truth of an alternative case put forward by way of a defence, and the failure by a party to establish the alternate case or advance of probabilities does not prove Redcar and Cleveland Borough Council's case in itself. As I have said it must be proved on the balance of probabilities as already suggested.
d. When making any additional findings, and when undertaking my overall welfare analysis, I must consider the whole of the evidence. This includes oral evidence, written statements, and expert testimony. I am entitled to rely on hearsay, but I must remind myself that it is not the same as first hand evidence, but I must have regard to its provenance and consider if there is other evidence that can support it.
e. The performance of a witness in the witness box is important, but I must not reach my conclusion about the witness based purely on that performance. The court must remember that parties can be nervous when giving evidence.
f. In terms of the welfare outcome, since Redcar and Cleveland Borough Council is seeking to persuade the court that a final care order should be made with a plan of adoption, and if that plan is approved a placement order should be made, the court must take the following approach: where the court is invited to make a care order the court must be satisfied that the threshold criteria under section 31 of the Children Act are made out. If I am satisfied all the facts have been proved which cross the threshold then this opens a gateway for the consideration of what if any public law order is proportionate in the circumstances.
g. I must remember since there is a plan of adoption that it is the welfare of these children throughout their lives that is my paramount concern. In short, the question for the court with regard to a plan of adoption will nothing less than adoption meet the welfare needs of the individual children throughout their lives?
h. When deciding whether to approve Redcar and Cleveland Borough Council care plan and decide which option best meets the welfare needs of the children in question, the court must set out the realistic options, look at the positives and negatives of each outcome against the backdrop of the welfare checklist before reaching a conclusion. The appropriate welfare checklist is the one found at section 1(4) of the Adoption and Children Act 2002.
i. As well as matters set out in the welfare checklist, the court must remind itself that it is not looking for perfect parenting, but good enough parenting. It is always important that the court reminds itself of the oft quoted but nonetheless important words of Hedley J in Re L (Care: Threshold Criteria) [2007] 1 FLR 2050 para 50, "… society must be willing to tolerate very diverse standards of parenting, including the eccentric, the barely adequate, and the inconsistent. It is not the province of the state to spare children the consequences of defective parenting. In any event, it simply would not or could not be done".
j. If a plan of adoption is approved then the court must ask itself two related questions. First, is adoption in the best interests of the child or the children in question? And secondly, are the grounds on which the consent of the parents can be dispensed with?
k. In the recent case of Re F [2018] EWCA Civ 2761 Peter Jackson LJ in effect summarised what we would expect the court to address in these circumstances.
i. The type of harm that might arise
ii. The likelihood of it arising.
iii. The consequences for the child.
iv. The extent to which the harm could be reduced or mitigated.
v. The comparative evaluation of welfare between the realistic options, and in family placement and adoption.
vi. Proportionality.
l. Finally, in the recent Court of Appeal case of Re R and C (Adoption or Fostering) [2024] EWCA Civ 1302, the court emphasised the need for, and I quote, "A balancing exercise in which each option is evaluated to the degree of detail necessary to analyse and weigh its own internal positives and negatives and each option is then compared side by side against the competing options." See paragraph 72. And further at paragraph 68 "Under the current law, as the president said in Re B (A Child) [2013] UKSC 33, "It will only be in extremely unusual cases that a court will make an order stipulating contact arrangements to which adopters do not agree". The paragraph continues, "… but that does not obviate the court's responsibilities set the template for contact for the placement stage in this case, both to meet the children's short-term needs, and to set the template. There was of course a possibility that the search for such adopters might be unsuccessful or that adopters might subsequently refuse to agree to contact, but in the circumstance of this case, that possibility was not a sufficient reason to refuse to make a placement order".
i. The likelihood of any such relationship continuing the value of that to a child.
ii. The ability and willingness of any of the children's relatives or for any such person to provide them with a secure environment in which the children can develop and otherwise meet the children's needs.
iii. The wishes and feelings of any of the children's relatives or any such person regarding the child.