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The judgment is being distributed on the strict understanding that in any report no person other than the advocates or the solicitors instructing them (and other persons identified by name in the judgment itself) may be identified by name or location and that in particular the anonymity of the children and the adult members of their family must be strictly preserved.
FAMILY DIVISION
Strand, London, WC2A 2LL |
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B e f o r e :
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FS |
Applicant |
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JS |
Respondent |
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Mr Philip Moor QC and Mr Justin Warshaw (instructed by Hughes Fowler Carruthers) for the Respondent
Hearing dates: 10, 11, 12, 13, 16, 17 and 18 October 2006
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Mr Justice Burton:
i) The 'property portfolio'. This portfolio is based upon properties acquired by the Respondent, before the marriage, over the years, for the purpose primarily of obtaining income from rentals and capital appreciation. There were commercial properties in Dagenham, Wolverhampton, Bury St Edmunds, Rochester and Telford, all of which he retains, together with a piece of land which, it is common ground, is of no value, ("the retained properties"). In addition there were commercial properties in Peckham and Ipswich, which were sold in 2001 and 2002, and in Barrow, which was, in 2001, transferred into a trust he set up for: the first matrimonial home, sold when the second was purchased: and a holiday home in Sandbanks, which is still retained. During the marriage he acquired some further properties. This arose as a result of the fact that his firm was taken over, and his interest, and that of his partners, bought out, in 2001, for a sum payable over a period but which eventually totalled some £1.2 million. With the proceeds, he acquired further commercial properties, still retained, in Gloucester and Worthing, and a residential property, which was intended to be a retirement home for him and the Applicant when he gave up work and H left school.
ii) The 'pension portfolio'. At the outset of the marriage he had a pension fund valued at £435,524, which substantially increased in value, particularly in the years after 2001. He converted the pension funds, which, when cashed in, amounted to more than £970,000, into a property portfolio within the pension wrapper. There are now 4 such commercial properties within the pension fund, in Poole, Wigan, Watford and Brighton.
iii) There are then other minor assets: there are shares and cash, belonging to the Respondent, the Applicant has a pension worth £7,000, and there are substantial liabilities, including both parties' liabilities for costs relating to these proceedings.
i) two properties which are conceded to be matrimonial properties: holiday home, acquired in 1993 by the Respondent on a 99-year lease (with 69 years now unexpired), and used both during the Respondent's first marriage and his second marriage as a holiday home, and a freehold property acquired by the Respondent in August 2001 for the purpose referred to above of its being their ultimate retirement home.
ii) two commercial properties held within the Respondent's self-administer pension fund ("SIP"): a headleasehold department store block in Brighton ("Brighton"), and a freehold two-floor retail unit in Watford ("Watford"). Expert evidence was adduced by the parties in relation to the commercial properties, on behalf of the Applicant by Mr Duncan Preston FRICS, a National Director of Jones Lang LaSalle Ltd, and on behalf of the Respondent by Mr Paul Wolfenden FRICS, a Direction of DTZ Debenham Tie Leung. As to the residential properties, expert evidence was adduced on behalf of the Applicant from Mr Howard Gross FRICS, employed as part time Senior Surveyor by Goadsby (Survey and Valuation) Ltd, the specialist valuation division of the Bournemouth-based Goadsby group: no independent expert was instructed by the Respondent, who relied on his own evidence, on an informal market appraisal and the fact that the holiday home has been on the market, and on the comparables referred to by Mr Gross.
The Disputed Valuations
Watford
i) The rent was recently agreed between the existing landlord and tenant, as a result of a September 2005 rent review, at £95 Zone A.
ii) In respect of premises a new lease was negotiated in May/June 2006 at £95 zone A, and the property was then sold with the benefit of that new lease at a yield of 5%.
Mr Preston believes that the rent will be reviewed for 118 at £93 Zone A, which would equate to a rent of £100,000 per annum, and, at a 5.1% yield, he gives a valuation of £1.85m.
i) He concludes that the information not only does not support a figure of £93 Zone A for the subject premises, but argues for a figure of considerably less. 114 is further up the High Street, towards the favourable end, and in particular is in a prime site with a shop front on three sides. The £95 rent was arrived at as part of a deal which gave a very much more favourable new lease to the tenant. As for the £95k agreed in respect of 114C, that negotiation was not between a willing buyer and willing seller, but between an existing landlord and tenant, and antedated the comparable, which he submits points to a considerably lower figure, of 114.
That is his response to Mr Preston's two bull points, but he then makes two further strong points of his own.
ii) The property next but one to the subject property, failed to sell at auction. This property has a present rent of £80 Zone A (higher than the subject property) with a March 2007 rent review. It was withdrawn with a purported highest bid of £950,000, which Mr Preston accepted, knowing of the circumstances, was not a genuine bid. Thus it was not sold for a figure of less than £950,000.
iii) Mr Wolfenden points, in the context of whether this property is substantially marketable at a price much higher than that, to the fact that there are a number of vacant properties in this very area. 114D has been vacant for two years (although Mr Preston suggests there may be other reasons for that), as are 111 opposite (and nearer to the entrance of the Harlequin Centre), 106-108, further down towards the favourable end of the High Street, and, further up, 132 and 136. The relevance of such vacant properties is not only that this may indicate a lack of commercial interest in buying such properties as the subject property in that very area, but may well also affect any imminent rent reviews (including that of the subject property).
Brudenell
Holiday Home
i) Matrimonial, or former matrimonial or intended matrimonial, homes: one is valued net of sale costs at £1,818,750 (with an outstanding mortgage of £700,000), the former matrimonial home, to which the Respondent moved back after the separation, and where he now lives during the week while he is working, valued at £775,000, less sale costs of £23,250 (with an outstanding mortgage of £347,806), Brudenell and Holiday home ('Category 1').
ii) The retained properties, which were all purchased by the Respondent well prior to his marriage to the Applicant (and were disclosed in the form M1 in his first divorce). The total agreed value of the retained properties, net of sale costs and capital gains tax, is £1,015,035 ('Category 2').
iii) Other commercial properties not held within the Respondent's SIP, deriving either from the sales of the commercial properties which were, like the retained properties, purchased before this marriage, but which were sold in 2001-2 or from the proceeds of sale of his partnership interest in his company ('Category 3').
iv) The pension portfolio, being properties (including Watford and Brighton) and a relatively immaterial amount of cash. It is agreed that the pension portfolio falls to be valued as part of the available pool, although the Respondent will, as a matter of law, only be allowed to access 25% of its value as capital, in order to assist in the raising of a lump sum. At the time of his first divorce, the pension funds were all in the then normal form of investments with profits or other discretionary bonus schemes, and were valued at £435,324. These RAP funds grew to a total value of £972,528 when they were, between 2001-4, liquidated and transferred into the property-based SIP, managed by the Respondent, whose present agreed net value (including my valuation of Watford) is £3,432,978 ('Category 4').
v) The balance of the parties' assets and liabilities which are, apart from the substantial liabilities for costs, not material ('Category 5').
i) The Applicant seeks to continue to live in the matrimonial home, and consequently requires it to be transferred to her outright, net of mortgage: she accepts that it may be appropriate to expect her to move out once the younger child E completes tertiary education, and to 'trade down' – which would be in 20 years time. As set out above, the agreed net value is £1,818,750. 50% of the total asset figure of £7,017,260 is £3,508,630, although in the alternative a lesser sum is sought of £3,001,112, being 50% of £6,002,225, namely the total assets less the value of the retained properties. Consequently the Applicant seeks an order which in cash terms amounts to £1,818,750 plus £1,689,980 (the balance of £3,508,630) alternatively £1,182,300 (the balance of £3,001,112): with the Respondent additionally paying the agreed liabilities of £507,916 (thus a total cash sum on top of the transfer of £2,197,796, alternatively £1,690,279) and paying off the matrimonial home mortgage of £700,000.
ii) The Respondent does not accept that it is appropriate for the Applicant and the two children to remain in the matrimonial home, to which they moved only 17 days before the separation, and which, with four storeys and five bedrooms, will be too large for them. He submits that it should be sold, and that there should consequently be no transfer. His case is that there should be a net lump sum payment of £1.5m: net of liabilities, so that the agreed sum of £507,916 falls to be added.
The Law and the Issues
"(a) the income, earning capacity, property and other financial resources which each of the parties to the marriage has or is likely to have in the foreseeable future, including in the case of earning capacity any increase in that capacity which it would in the opinion of the court be reasonable to expect a party to the marriage to take steps to acquire;
(b) the financial needs, obligations and responsibilities which each of the parties to the marriage has or is likely to have in the foreseeable future;
(c) the standard of living enjoyed by the family before the breakdown of the marriage;
(d) the age of each party to the marriage and the duration of the marriage;
(e) any physical or mental disability of either of the parties to the marriage;
(f) the contributions which each of the parties has made or is likely in the foreseeable future to make to the welfare of the family, including any contribution by looking after the home or caring for the family;
(g) the conduct of each of the parties, if that conduct is such that it would in the opinion of the court be inequitable to disregard it;
(h) … the value to each of the parties to the marriage of any benefit … which, by reasons of the dissolution or annulment of the marriage, that party will lose the chance of acquiring."
"When their partnership ends, each is entitled to an equal share of the assets of the partnership, unless there is a good reason to the contrary. Fairness requires no less. But I emphasise the qualifying phrase: 'unless there is good reason to the contrary'. The yardstick of equality is to be applied as an aid, not a rule."
i) The first question, and the first issue in this case, is what the matrimonial assets are, to which the yardstick is to apply. There is, as will be seen, substantial discussion, particularly in Miller, as to what assets e.g. deriving from a source prior and/or external to the marriage, qualify to be kept, at least in the first instance, separate and apart in considering the division of assets between competing spouses. ("Non-matrimonial property".)
ii) The second issue is contribution – financial or non-financial. So far as financial contribution is concerned, this issue may overlap with the last, for, if one party is the sole or main source of the assets, even if, on analysis, they do not qualify as "non-matrimonial property", they will, or may, constitute a substantial unmatched contribution by that party. In the consideration of this issue, the duration of the marriage may play a part. ("Contribution".)
iii) The third issue is conduct – which only exceptionally arises so as to impact upon the division of property, but is prayed in aid by the Applicant in this case. ("Conduct".)
iv) The fourth issue is new, and has its genesis in the speeches in Miller of Lord Nicholls at para 13 and Baroness Hale at para 140, namely, in her words, "compensation for relationship-generated disadvantage", on the basis that "the economic disadvantage generated by the relationship may go beyond need". ("Compensation".)
v) The fifth issue can be generically labelled as "Need", but is to an extent an amalgam. Consideration of need used to be in the forefront of financial provision cases, at least where there was more than a sufficiency of assets, and the aim was to scoop out of the pool sufficient to cope with the need of the less well-resourced party (generally the wife), whether her needs were in a given case assessed generously or stringently. It is now, particularly in the light of the decisions of the House of Lords, clear that need is no longer the yardstick, if it ever was, and that, by concentrating upon need, there has been insufficient account taken, not only of the general principles now so clearly enunciated by their Lordships in White and Miller, but of such a party's non-financial contribution to the marriage, particularly in a long marriage. The issue of need is however still material, for at least the following reasons. First if there is non-matrimonial property, but the matrimonial property is inadequate to provide for the needs of the payee, then that is a ground for 'dequarantining' the non-matrimonial property, which becomes available for general distribution (see White per Lord Nicholls at 994). Secondly, addressing the issue of need is a necessary check to ensure that enough is given to the payee, or left with the payer, to enable each of them to live and meet their obligations. Within the confine of this amalgam issue there are included the following:
a) What are and are likely to be the living expenses and obligations of the parties, particularly of the payee?
b) What is the earning capacity of the payee and of the payer (including consideration of their ages)?
c) Is the likely expenditure to be capitalised on a lifelong basis, in accordance with the Duxbury tables (derived from Duxbury v Duxbury [1987] 1 FLR 7, and now the subject of detailed and helpful calculations in the book "At a Glance" produced by the Family Law Bar Association), whether as modified e.g. to allow for sale of the matrimonial home and thus the release of additional capital at a given future point, or otherwise, or on the basis of some shorter duration such as exemplified in Fournier v Fournier [1998] 2 FLR 90)?
d) In this case, is the Applicant to be enabled to stay in the matrimonial home?
The answers to any or all of these five issues may constitute a good reason for a move away from or towards equality. In some cases, the shortness of the marriage may be a self-standing reason for reducing a payee's entitlement.
Issue 1: Non-Matrimonial Property
i) Lord Nicholls refers to matrimonial property (as defined by him, which would include what I have called unilateral assets) as being "the financial product of the parties' common endeavour" (para 22) as contrasted with pre-matrimonial and extra-matrimonial property. It seems to me that he is thereby regarding assets worked on, even wholly by one of the parties during the marriage as being, by virtue of the other's contribution, or of the marital partnership, achieved in common.
ii) Lord Denning's well known definition of family assets in Wachtel is specifically approved by Baroness Hale at para 149:
"It refers to those things which are acquired by one or other or both of the parties, with the intention that there should be continuing provision for them and their children during their joint lives and used for the benefit of the family as a whole."
Thus, on this definition, even assets which might otherwise be described as unilateral assets fall, on Baroness Hale's definition, by virtue of being family assets, within matrimonial property if "used for the benefit of the family as a whole" (or, indeed, if "acquired with the intention that there should be continuing provision" from them for the family).
iii) Again Baroness Hale herself defines, in paragraph 149, as a "prime example" of a family asset, a party's "earning capacity": and where, as here, that earning capacity arises out of developmental skills, the product, albeit a unilateral asset, would appear to be brought by Baroness Hale within matrimonial property.
iv) Further, she seems to play down or delimit the impact or effect of unilateral assets yet further in paragraph 150, as she refers to them as being "difficult", when she recites the "intrinsic incommensurability" between commercial and domestic contributions.
i) sale of commercial properties which the Respondent brought into the marriage and their replacement by others.
ii) the pension funds, in cash, at the outset of the marriage.
iii) the company partnership proceeds.
i) If they were excluded from the available pot, there might well have been – almost certainly must have been – insufficient assets for the Applicant's needs, in which case they would have once again come back into play (Lord Nicholls in White at 994).
ii) Because of the issue of contribution, to which I shall be turning, there is room at that stage for consideration of the original source of these properties, and the substantial financial contribution by the Respondent.
Contribution.
Conduct.
"It is only equitable to take their conduct into account if one has been very much more to blame than the other: in the famous words of Ormrod J in Wachtel v Wachtel [1973] Fam 72 at 80 the conduct had been 'both obvious and gross' … It is simply not possible for any outsider to pick over the events of a marriage and decide who was the more to blame for what went wrong, save in the most obvious and gross cases."
i) Armstrong v Armstrong [1974] SJ 579: wife shoots husband with his shotgun with intent to endanger life.
ii) Jones v Jones [1976] Fam 8: husband attacks wife with a razor and inflicts serious injuries: there are financial consequences (wife rendered incapable of working).
iii) Bateman v Bateman [1979] 2 WLR 377: wife twice inflicts stab wounds on her husband with a knife.
iv) S v S [1982] Fam 183: husband commits incest with children of the family.
v) Hall v Hall [1984] FLR 631: wife stabs husband in the abdomen with a knife.
vi) Kyte v Kyte [1987] 3 AER 1041: wife facilitates the husband's attempted suicide.
vii) Evans v Evans [1989] 1 FLR 351: wife incites others to murder the husband.
viii) K v K [1990] 2 FLR 225: Husband's serious drink problem and "disagreeable" behaviour led to the forced sale of the matrimonial home and serious financial consequences to the wife.
ix) H v H [1994] 2 FLR 801: serious assault and an attempted rape of wife by husband: and financial consequences because the consequent imprisonment of husband destroyed his ability to support her.
x) A v A [1995] 1 FLR 345: husband assaults the wife with a knife.
xi) C v C (Bennett J 12 December 2001 unreported): wife deliberately drugged husband to make him very sleepy and then while he was in a somnolent state placed a bag over his head, which she held in such a way that the husband could not breathe. Although it was found that the wife did not have an intent to kill, Bennett J concluded that the husband did believe that she was trying to kill him, and that her aim was to make him so believe.
xii) Al-Khatib v Masry [2002] 1 FLR 1053: husband guilty of "very grave" misconduct in abducting the children of the marriage in contempt of court.
xiii) H v H [2006] 1 FLR 990: very serious assault by husband on wife with knife, leading to 12 years imprisonment for attempted murder and with financial consequences, namely destroying her Police career.
"43. … it is, in my judgment, essential when considering this case to appreciate the gravity of the conduct which is involved. [Counsel for the wife] says that this is conduct at the very top end of the scale under subs(g). He says he cannot imagine anything worse short of actually having murdered the wife. I am inclined to agree with him about that.
44. How is the court to have regard to his conduct in a meaningful way? I agree with [Counsel for the husband] that the court should not be punitive or confiscatory for its own sake. I, therefore, consider that the proper way to have regard to the conduct is as a potentially magnifying factor when considering the wife's position under the other subsections and criteria. It is the glass through which the other factors are considered."
- Incident 1: June 1998. The Respondent criticises the way in which the Petitioner is dealing with the baby (H). The Petitioner slaps him. The Respondent slaps her back: inevitably, because of his larger size, with greater effect. The Police are called.
- Incident 2: February 1999. The Applicant and Respondent are arguing. In frustration the Applicant picks up a glass and smashes it, so that the glass showered over the Respondent. The Respondent retaliated by slapping her hard to the head, causing a bruise.
- Incident 2A: May 2000. The Applicant after an argument, and upset at the death of a friend, throws a champagne glass against the wall and smashes it (overheard by the neighbour Mrs F).
- Incident 3: August 2001. Another argument. The Respondent is cooking steak in a frying pan. The Applicant grabs the pan from the Respondent and throws it and its contents into the garden. The Respondent picks up the steak and throws it at the Applicant. The Applicant then leaves the house, taking the Respondent's car keys, preventing him from taking H in the car down to the holiday home as planned: the Respondent then leaves the house with H to go to Waterloo Station and travel down by train (notifying the Applicant's mother that they would be arriving by train rather than car). The Applicant then follows the Respondent and H to Waterloo and there is a fracas at the railway station. The Police are called.
- Incident 3A: May 2002. An argument as to whether the Respondent could take H for a walk to Greenwich Park. In frustration the Applicant follows them and kicks the Respondent's leg. He kicks her back.
- Incident 3B: June 2002. Argument in front of H: the Applicant throws a port glass at the Respondent, which smashes.
- Incident 3C: Summer 2002. Another argument. The Applicant throws her wedding ring into the square and it is lost.
- Incident 4: October 2002. The Applicant and Respondent are at lunch with friends. There is a dispute about whether it is time to leave. The Respondent pulls the Applicant off the sofa onto the floor, hurting her leg. They leave together and on their return home the Applicant is insistent on an apology, and while the Respondent is in the bathroom, bathing H, with the door locked, the Applicant kicks at the door with her heel, causing a small hole, and when he comes out of the bathroom, she slaps at him, causing a small cut to his face because she is still holding the door keys in her hand.
- Incident 5: April 2003. Another argument. The Applicant picks up and smashes a fruit bowl. She picks up the Respondent's antique walking stick by the open front door, and he grapples with her seeking to recover it: there is a struggle, in which with one hand he seeks to grasp the stick, and with the other hand he digs into her neck and shoulder, leaving red marks. She smashes the stick. Police are called.
- Incident 6: July 2003. The Applicant comes into the Respondent's bedroom and there is a long row into the night. She says that he hit her head against the door, while he says that she hit her own head against the door – I am unable to resolve this dispute. She accepts that she pulled a small radiator off the bathroom wall.
- Incident 6A: July 2003. Another argument. The Applicant smashes a glass and throws coffee and cereal over the floor.
- Incident 6B: July 2003. Another argument. The Applicant suggests it is because the Respondent was saying that she should have an abortion, but that cannot be right as E was born only one month later. In any event, the Applicant went into his bedroom and tore up his framed wedding photograph, and then went downstairs and poured away the contents of two of his bottles of port and sherry down the sink.
- Incident 7: August 2003. A row while the Respondent is driving the car; the Applicant pulls his glasses off his face while he is driving, and throws them out of the car window. Later at the holiday home, he criticises her for shuffling the baby in her cot across the floor with her feet, and accuses her of kicking the baby, and says he is going to telephone her mother. She grapples with him to take the telephone off him, pulling the telephone wire out of the socket, and throws a speaker at the French windows, smashing one of the panes. He shoves her out of the way and she falls against the coffee table, bruising her right elbow.
- Incident 7A: November 2003. The Respondent is eating, and continuing to do so when the Applicant is determined to attract his attention, and throws a glass of wine over him. He retaliates by kicking her on the bottom (although, as I accept, this was not with any force – it appears in his diary, and was not a matter complained of by the Applicant).
- Incident 7B: December 2003. The Respondent alleges that the Applicant threw a plate of food at the wall and smashed it, as to which I make no finding: but she accepts that she tore up the plans for the basement of the new house, which the Respondent had been working at on his drawing board, because, she says, she was unhappy with them.
- Incident 7C: Christmas Day 2003. The Applicant did not like the earrings that the Respondent had bought her for Christmas, and threw them through the open door out into the street. The Respondent locked himself into the bathroom, and the Applicant hammered at the bathroom door, as was heard by Mr O.
- Incident 7D: January 2004. Applicant accuses the Respondent of using a coffee mug reserved for her. The Respondent tries to throw the contents of the mug at her (it is not suggested that such contents landed on her). The Applicant picks up and smashes the Respondent's single lens reflex camera.
- Incident 7E: March 2004. When the parties were packing up at the holiday home, the Applicant became angry with the Respondent and threw food at him, smashing eggs and stamping on an orange juice carton.
- Incident 7F: July 2004. The Applicant throws a colander at an antique table, damaging both.
- Incident 7G: September 2004. The Applicant threw a scooter down the stairs at the entrance of the holiday home, breaking Mr P's glass landing partition window. On another occasion, or other occasions, Mr P saw the Applicant kicking in a glass pane in their own front door – the Applicant explains because the Respondent would not let her in: and he also saw her breaking off the mirror from the Respondent's Jaguar and throwing it over a garden wall – the Applicant explains because she did not want the Respondent to leave the flat.
- Incident 8: 29 September 2004. The Applicant criticised the Respondent for leaving the kitchen in a mess, and smashed his Wedgwood mug on the floor. He smacked her hard on the bottom in response. She smashed a large cut glass flower vase and threw his brief case out of the front door, and went up to the bedroom, where she threw his cufflink box, a conch shell and his bedside lamp onto the floor. He struggled to prevent her and threw her hard onto the bed. Either as a result of the incident in the kitchen, or in the bathroom, the Applicant suffered injury to her back, necessitating a visit to an osteopath.
- Incident 9: 17 December 2004. The Applicant came in to the Respondent's bedroom in the matrimonial home, seven days after their moving in, waking him up at 2am to complain that the heating had gone off. She abuses him for incompetence, and, as he lay in bed, landed several blows with her right fist on his face, giving him a black eye. He subsequently wrote to her parents to tell them what had occurred, as he had done on two previous occasions, including after incident 7. The photograph of the Applicant's black eye is in the papers.
i) That the Applicant was using all the strength she could to barricade the door to prevent the Respondent entering is clear from her own statement in these proceedings at paragraph 67:
"I realised to my horror that there was in fact no lock on the door as the bolt was very old and I put all my weight against the door."
Her statement made to the Police at the time reads as follows:
"As I tried to barricade myself in, J forced the door and I was petrified – I thought he wanted to kill me. James quickly got in, all I can remember is being smashed against the shower pole. I hit the pole with the right side of my head and I began to bleed."
and
"I ran upstairs to the bathroom because I thought it had a lock. When I got in I saw the lock wouldn't work so I leaned my weight against the door. I was leaning with my front against the door. J was pushing the door open."
The note recorded in the police notebook is:
"The suspect broke in through the door and began to repeatedly strike the [victim] to the head: this caused her to bang her head on the pole, and a bump which bled a lot."
ii) The Applicant gave an account to me that she was standing in the "centre of the bathroom" when the Respondent burst in. I do not see how she can have got there so quickly or so straightforwardly, after her failed desperate attempt to prevent the Respondent entering. She said in cross-examination that she was "very, very close" to the post – but the centre of the bathroom is 2ft 6in away. He would need to have picked up her and carried her at least some distance so that he could thwack her head against the shower pole, but:
a) Her account in examination in chief was that he "grabbed me from behind like a rag doll … and he smashed [me] deliberately against the pole" and when asked on what part of her body he grabbed her from behind, she said "my shoulders and upper arm". It is thus not suggested that he held her round the waist in order to pick her up, as would have been more likely if he was to move her any distance.
b) In her statement at paragraph 67, she said that he "grabbed me by my upper arms, lifted me slightly": and she again confirmed in cross-examination that "I was slightly raised off the floor". Notwithstanding her description of herself as a rag doll, I do not find it easy to picture him being able to get her from the centre of the bathroom so as to smash her head against the pole (a) without lifting her more than slightly off the floor and (b) by the waist, rather than by the shoulders and upper arm.
iii) As for her accounts at the time, I have already recited her statement to the Police and the police notebook, neither of which specifically suggests or mentions his having deliberately smashed her head against the pole: and the hospital notes record that she "was beaten about head with fists and has been thrown against shower of cupboard". His accounts to the Police at the time are consistent with the case he now makes. The records in the policeman's notebooks are that "he wasn't sure how she had injured her head as she could have hit her head when he slapped her or she was not knocked over after being behind the bathroom door as he tried to get in": and "he slapped me twice with the palm of his hand. He denied causing her to hit her head although conceded that when he opened the door he could have caused her to hit her head". In his interviews, he stated that:
"She had fallen when I pushed the door open. I was on the other side of the door so I didn't see what happened."
And later:
"Q: So is it possible that you by opening the door quickly, … propelled her into the shower pole.
A: Yes that's highly likely. I can't remember which way the door opens but I think it opens towards the shower pole …
Q: So it is possible that you opened the door with such force that you sent your wife careering into the shower pole which caused the cut.
A: Yes, that explains rather than hitting the bath. No, if she says it's the shower pole that that's how it happened. I opened the door."
iv) Mrs M, both in chief and in cross-examination, confirmed that when, immediately after the incident, the Applicant rang her up and, albeit in an emotional state, explained what had happened, she had described the incident by saying to her that the Respondent had been beating her head against the floor.
i) He was obviously in a blind rage as a result of the smashing of the clock.
ii) She was away from him face down on the floor.
iii) As the cut was superficial, it may be that the blood did not pour out immediately, but only started to ooze out, and continued to do so while she first lay there on the floor and then went to make her phone calls.
i) he did indeed do so, as he had previously accepted, although in the witness box he was determined now to say that he had merely thought of doing so, no doubt as he is now thoroughly ashamed of such an unprepossessing occurrence.
ii) he did so immediately, in his furious state, perhaps since his mind was indeed set on safeguarding the ring in the light of what the Applicant had done previously, including throwing away the wedding ring, or perhaps because he was subconsciously demonstrating what, so far as he was concerned, was the end of the marriage. Neither is a creditable explanation of what occurred, and it perhaps exemplifies his cold personality, to which I earlier referred. But I am satisfied that he did so immediately, and did not return to the bathroom for that purpose (his return to the bathroom was for the purpose of his recovering his sponge bag – while the Applicant continued to lie on the floor – as he had decided to leave the house and go down to the holiday home, as he had done after previous incidents). Although the Applicant now believes that he went out of the bathroom and came back in again to try and remove her ring, she was not so certain about it at the time she made her statement in these proceedings (paragraph 67) and when she made her statement to the Police at the time, she gave a clear description that the Respondent's sudden attempt to pull at her engagement ring followed on immediately after his blows, before he left the bathroom, and that his return to the bathroom was to collect the sponge bag. This is consistent with the evidence that the Respondent gave in his witness statement in these proceedings, in his evidence in chief (although, at that stage, asserting that he had only thought of doing so), and again in cross-examination.
Compensation
"13. Another strand, recognised more explicitly now than formerly, is compensation. This is aimed at redressing any significant prospective economic disparity between the parties arising from the way they conducted their marriage. For instance, the parties may have arranged their affairs in a way which has greatly advantaged the husband in terms of his earning capacity but left the wife severely handicapped so far as her own earning capacity is concerned. Then the wife suffers a double loss: a diminution in her earning capacity and the loss of a share in her husband's enhanced income. This is often the case. Although less marked than in the past, women may still suffer a disproportionate financial loss on the breakdown of a marriage because of their traditional roles as home-maker and childcarer."
Need
i) The Applicant will have £15,000 from the Respondent for the two children, plus payment of all school extras. Now that H is at boarding school, his home expenses will be limited to the holidays and, until he has to go in on Sundays for the services, weekends, but then will in any event be, in my judgment, sufficient to cover both odd trips to the kind of restaurants that children enjoy (so as to render it double-counting if provision for such eating out is also included in the Respondent's budget) and holiday expenses.
ii) The Applicant herself said that during the marriage her 'personal freedom to spend as [she] wanted to' was very controlled – at least for a substantial part of the marriage. I am entirely clear that the family lifestyle, the high standard of accommodation and holidays apart, was not a luxurious one involving either any material entertaining (save as to her own charitable coffee mornings) or eating out. Equally there is no indication whatever of any visits to the opera or the theatre, at any rate on any more than a very occasional basis. As set out above, the Applicant is not entitled to an improvement on her standard of living with the Respondent.
iii) There was, in my judgment, a substantial exaggeration and/or overlap between food (not challenged at £9,200) alcohol (£1200) and entertaining at home (not suggested to be on any catered basis and, thus, presumably only the cost of the food/alcohol - £5,200) and restaurants (£8840): and as to car expenses (£10,858) and taxis and public transport (another £3,520). In any event I do not conclude that two cars are necessary, whether for a potential au pair (none has been employed up to date, and now H is at boarding school and E will be at full time school) or otherwise. There is a substantial element included for staff: the Applicant's only justification in relation to a charge for gardener at £4680 (no gardener having previously been employed, although the Respondent did such gardening as was necessary) is that (in relation to a garden which, upon the view, could be seen largely to consist of lawn) the Applicant 'does not have time', not now likely to be a problem.
iv) In my judgment, the amounts included in the Applicant's budget for shoes (£3000 per year), clothes (£8400), hairdressing, beautician and cosmetics/toiletries (£8040) in respect of what I was told was a monthly appointment with the hairdresser, plus waxing and necessary toiletries – are, on any view, substantially excessive, as are the suggested sum of £1200 for books and CDs, and the claims for medical insurance and dentist of £2,800, when the Applicant does not have private insurance and national health provision is available.
v) The expenses estimated for electricity, gas and insurance appear to exceed the actual expenses paid by the Respondent.
i) I am persuaded that the Applicant has no great earning capacity. I am satisfied, having heard what I have described above as her own negative reaction to the suggestion of what talent she may have, that, notwithstanding her obvious intelligence, there are no particular openings available for her: but I feel sure that she can, at any rate, earn £15,000 per annum starting in a year's time.
ii) I am not persuaded that it is necessary that she and the children stay in the matrimonial home. Plainly it would be an advantage by way of providing some short term stability, and that may consequently lead to a more amenable approach to access to the children: but the house is, in my judgment, larger than they need, and is not one to which, by virtue of the last 17 days of the marriage, it can be said that the family was habituated. I am also far from persuaded that, simply because the Applicant has become a no doubt valued committee member a society in the area, she has to remain in the area – as opposed for example to moving to Highbury and becoming an equally valued member of the Highbury Society: and in any event it was their plan that, within a few years, she and the Respondent would be moving to Poole. However, if by making economies here and there, the Applicant can enable herself to remain in the matrimonial home, then a transfer to the Applicant of the matrimonial home free of mortgage would enable her to do so – but it is not my intention to give her provision so as to ensure that that is the case.
Conclusions