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FAMILY DIVISION
Strand, London, WC2A 2LL |
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Respondents |
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Dermot Main Thompson (instructed by Brethertons) for the 1st Respondent Father
Ruth Kirby (instructed by Dawson Cornwell) for the 2nd Respondent LV
Dermot Casey (instructed by CAFCASS) for the 3rd Respondent BV
Hearing dates: 28 & 29 January 2016
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Crown Copyright ©
Mrs Justice Parker:
a) This is a Hague wrongful retention case brought by a mother living in Spain against a father living in England. The defences areb) child's objections
c) Article 13 (b).
The history
a) Requests for the original notes of meetings with the children, and time to consider what emergedb) A late change in mother's case
c) The need for the children to be told about the changes and to seek their views
d) Detailed cross-examination and length and complexity of submissions
The role of independent guardians and CAFCASS
What the boys have said
L: interview with Ms Ramus 4 September 2015 (recorded in Ms Hutchinson's statement),
- S ok for first two years but no longer gets on with him.
- S verbally abusive and picks on him.
- TV and DVD smashed. Punished by electrical equipment being taken away.
- S has a bad temper and shouts at him from close by and intimidates him.
- L spends time in room to avoid arguments which he hates as it is boring.
- S has now started to pick on B.
- Friends don't come round because parents won't drive them and S won't.
- Only allowed to speak to dad on Sundays so called his father on other times.
- Previously contact had been restricted.
- Does not get on with his mother as she has no interest in sport (he added 'or computers) on a later occasion.
- Once helped on S's stall in return for going out on a Saturday night (to me, he said to take him out) but S reneged on this.
- Began to feel bad about returning to Spain as summer holiday progressed and made decision as had wanted to do so for some time.
- There was a row in the car which L attributes to S but the mother said that he shouldn't have spoken like that. Wifi turned off as punishment.
- School work had suffered (the mother has said that L had planned with the father to fail a year to support case for remaining in England).
- Had had enough of Spain.
- Thought that his relationship with his mother would be worse if he went back.
B interview with Mrs Ramus 4 September 2015 (recorded in Ms Hutchinson's statement)
- He did not want to go back to Spain.
- He would return to Spain if his father took him and remained with him.
- S was really nice at first but started acting in a bad way and called him; fat' and L 'spotty'.
- Mother and S swear at him.
- S knocked over a box of papers on purpose and when B refused to pick them up he grabbed him by the arm and threw him down (this is the second time he had done this).
- Mother had once grabbed him by the neck and put him against a wall when he swore at her (reason for swearing not given).
- Doesn't speak to S now and doesn't get on with his mother and didn't speak to her for 2 days before they left Spain.
- She was nice and normal on his birthday when she telephoned.
- Their home in Spain is quite isolated and they rely on S to drive them (whereas L said he would not drive them – but this may not matter).
- If he had to go back would ruin his life.
- S is very aggressive and has threatened to put an uncle in a box and blow up the house of his mother's friend (this sounds as if it may be hearsay since it echoes what grandmother says, but it is not clear).
- S is very impatient and he's frightened of him.
- The mother and S don't really talk to him and MJ is treated better.
- Life is so much better in England. He has relatives and does normal family things. The father does not hit him or call him names (he did not allege that he or L had been hit in Spain) feels comfortable with his father.
- Both said mother supports S.
L statement 30 October 2015
- He has had a disagreement with an English cousin because he had passed on information (about cannabis use at a home where there was to be contact) which had been passed on by his mother to an aunt. He had thought this would be confidential in the proceedings. The cousin had berated him for this. I am unclear about what the result has been for family relations, save that since then he had not had contact or wanted to speak to his mother.
- S is 'not a nice person' and is 'rude'.
- Mother had only allowed contact in accordance with the Northampton order. He had had a row with the mother about calls which she had not permitted (Mother accepts this).
- S makes him stay at school to wait for football practice as he will not collect him and drive him back and there are no buses. He does not get home until 8 or 9 at night. S collected him but was cross if he was late.
- He was once made to stay in his room for two weeks as a punishment.
- Both he and B have been pushed during rows, on one occasion falling down some steps, but he did not tell his mother about that because she wouldn't believe him.
- He is frightened about what the mother or S will do to him if he goes back.
- Mother is always upset with him and always blames him for things.
- When things have 'calmed down a bit' would like to see the mother but does not want to see her in Spain for fear she will not return him. She has known for some time he does not want to live in Spain.
- Mother and S have a lot of cash and he is worried that S is mixed with drugs. There is a loaded cross bow at home.
- He wants to stay and will be starting school on 3 November.
Interviews with Ms Northcutt 9 October 2015 and 6 November 2015
- It is 'unfortunate' that there was an interview with solicitors before CAFCASS involvement.
Interview with L
- Problems had started in Spain last year. S had taken away his stuff and would not take him anywhere.
- Things had been smashed.
- Spain is too hot and he prefers the weather here.
- Could not recall any positive experiences with the mother.
- He had not thought about what he would do if B was returned without him.
- He wanted to stay here. Would be fine to return to Spain for a court to make a decision as long as not staying with the mother and S would prefer to be in the care of his father than other relatives.
- Would probably be prepared to return on his own – would prefer that a court here made a decision as to what was to happen.
Interview with B
- Wants to see his mother but only with someone else there (did not say why).
- The decision to stay in England had been made by the father and paternal grandmother.
- He has positive memories of living in Spain.
- When asked (as the first substantive question) what could have made his life better in Spain he said 'seeing dad more often not just every four months, may have been happier if the mother had not married S, prefer it (in England) as his family is here.
- He described the incident (when he previously said that he had sworn at his mother), was made to sit in the bathroom at the shop, and his TV and play station were taken away as a punishment for three days.
- He had been called names, electrical equipment had been broken, L had to pick up cigarette butts on one occasion.
- He had been hit with a missile from a BB gun by S which he says was deliberate.
- He enjoys England and sharing a bedroom with L which he did not do before. L is protective of him.
- He only wants to have contact in England.
Interview B and Ms Northcutt during the hearing
- He 'didn't trust them because he didn't know whether S would come back'. Ms Northcutt told me in her evidence that that was the only reason he gave for not wanting to return.
- S has a crossbow that is basically a pellet gun and he would be 'really scared' if he shot him.
- He was not agreeable to return to Spain for a trial to take place.
- He was enjoying his English school and he didn't want to go back for a trial period to a Spanish school and then have to change again.
- His English was improving (he is bilingual but has been educated in Spanish) so it would be better to stay here.
- He would stay in his room and if made to come back without L would run away, and would run away even if with L.
- He said he never saw his aunt J, then said that he used to see her once a month, then once a week, than that his mother had stopped seeing her. He would feel a bit awkward being with her since he never saw her.
- He said that he barely knew mother's friend D, as he had only seen her once a month.
- There had been a problem at school in England but only a little one.
- If he went back he would run away because there S would be calling them names, whereas here there are friends, family and everything else.
L interview with Judge
The father's case
- S is likely to be a drug dealer, because his half brother has been convicted of drugs offences.
- When L has not wanted to do things with the family he has been told that he has to in a physically threatening manner.
- The children were scared of S but L has now started 'standing up to' S.
- Both boys have been failing at school.
- He expresses a concern that S will 'hold it against them' that they have made these assertions. The boys had not said this at the time he made this statement.
The mother's case
Discussion
The law and my conclusions
"We know now that the child's views are not determinative of the application or even presumptively so; they are but one of the factors to be considered at the discretion stage. We also know that the discretion is at large; there is no requirement of exceptionality, and the court is entitled to take into account the various aspects of Convention policy, the circumstances which gave the court discretion in the first place, and wider considerations of the child's rights and welfare."
Article 13(b) Defence
(a) there is a grave risk that his or her return would expose the child to physical or psychological harm or otherwise place the child in an intolerable situation.
"[34] 'Intolerable' is a strong word, but when applied to a child must mean 'a situation which this particular child in these particular circumstances should not be expected to tolerate' and this can relate to both physical and psychological harm. "Every child has to put up with a certain amount of rough and tumble, discomfort and distress. It is part of growing up. But there are some things which it is not reasonable to expect a child to tolerate. Among these, of course, are physical or psychological abuse or neglect of the child herself. if there is such a risk, the source of it is irrelevant: e.g., where a mother's subjective perception of events leads to a mental illness which could have intolerable consequences for the child.
[35] …, article 13(b) is looking to the future: the situation as it would be if the child were to be returned forthwith to her home country. … this is not necessarily the same as being returned to the person, institution or other body who has requested her return,". "… the situation which the child will face on return depends crucially on the protective measures which can be put in place to secure that the child will not be called upon to face an intolerable situation when she gets home."
a) The mother
b) J
c) D
a) The father's complaint (in his statement) that his marriage to the mother broke down because of a prior association with S (which she denies).
b) A previous history of abduction when the children were much younger for which I do not have a reason or explanation.
c) The timing of this holiday retention
i) That it was considered and postponed in April 2015 but postponed until B was older with the implication. It was perceived that he would be better able to perceive and to articulate views
ii) No warning was given
iii) Much discussion took place with the boys before the decision was taken
iv) The decision was only taken the night before the departure notwithstanding that the father says that he had been considering it for sometime.